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Rip Off

Oh yeah, It’s Monday again. Yesterday I had two laugh out loud moments. One was because I was wearing a sweater that I really like and it made me laugh. I think someone from my family got it for Bill as a present last year, 2006. He never wears it, I found it and I love it. Nice gray Old Navy sweater, very comfortable with a zipper to zip up. It really is a fun sweater and if you wore it, I think you would laugh too out of happiness.

The other laugh out loud moment was when I was watching 60 Minutes, not usually known for it’s comedy, and they were interviewing the 23 year old inventor of Facebook. The commentator was talking to someone else who mentioned how the generation born in the 80’s see things totally different from the boomers and the X’ers. X’ers sounds like Excer my friend from back in the day and I laughed because it was so odd to hear Excer’s name on TV, even though it wasn’t what they meant.

Yes, yesterday was just a silly day for me. Plus the anticipation of the massive snowstorm we were expecting made me giddy. It really didn’t take much to make me laugh, and though it was two small inconsequential things, totally unrelated I took the laugh wholeheartedly. Last night I watched some clips from the Golden Globes since it wasn’t officially on. I had hoped the Simpsons would be on, but the Terminator show was on instead and I tried watching that for a little while but I really wasn’t that interested in it.

I killed time until The Wire came on. Good acting all around, great writing. I tried several times to get into watching it, but something would come up and I would miss an episode and it became harder each time to get back into the plot. Since this is the final season, I’m giving it the old college try and digging what I’ve seen so far. There are ties to previous seasons that pop up and occasionally I see a character that I never saw before, or an incident that happened previously but it’s not insurmountable to get back into the swing of things.

After that I just read and listen to the rain fall on my window pane, waiting for it to turn into snow. And with those hopeful thoughts I went to sleep after waxing my Flexible Flier sled. Fell into a deep sleep and woke up after hitting the snooze button twice. I looked out the window, expecting to see cars buried in the snow, whiteness everywhere, and my heart sank. I saw asphalt and the cars parked the way they were last night.

So much hype about the big snow storm and I believed all of it. I felt like a kid again, a Sunday night, snow expected, another day off, a three day weekend. Perhaps sledding down Gunther Avenue, carefully wiping out before the corner of Main Street. Nope, none of that. Tough sledding, like my mother used to say.

Though I woke up late, I was surprised that I can still get it together and catch the bus to the city in about 45 minutes, not really hustling, just the routine is so easy to fall into, it’s like jumping on a conveyor belt, going through the motions and winding up at the bus stop at 5th and Washington Street. Bleary eyed, one cup of coffee and I’m gone. Thats about all for now, hope you like the photos yesterday.

Never My Love

Oh it’s really cold out. Cold enough to go to Costa Rica. I’m not going obviously, Juan is though. I wish him well despite being envious. It’s freezing outside in Hoboken though. It wasn’t so bad yesterday, though I had only gone outside once. Perhaps it did drop, but I didn’t feel like finding out. I stayed in and watched Kiss Kiss bang Bang, starring Robert Downey Jr and Val Kilmer. It’s a snarky detective movie and pretty funny. Downey has a great delivery, which is usually the same in every movie, he being the master of snark, or at least his writers are.

For me yesterday was all about nothing. When Bill was around we watched the Law and Order marathon on one of the cable channels. We got sucked into a three episode arc, then Bill went to work and I was left watching the start of yet another Law and Order episode after which I could take no more. I was even searching online for character backgrounds which shows Bill’s influence on my viewing habits. He also asked me to set up the DVR to record tonight’s two hour episode featuring the introduction of Jeremy Sisto formerly of Six Feet Under.

Last night when Juan bluntly came over, we watched an episode of The Minor Accomplishments of Jackie Woodman starring Laura Kightlinger on IFC. I thought Juan would get a kick out of it and he did. We watched another episode after that which I recorded, then watched Blue Velvet which Juan had never seen before. Still a classic movie, perhaps David Lynch’s best, though I do have Inland Empire from Netflix just waiting to be played, I just need to find the time for a proper WTF moment to actually sit and watch it. It’s such a dark movie with totally over the top performances by Isabella Rossellini and Dennis Hopper. The soundtrack is superb with Angelo Badalamenti arrangements mixed with some classic early rock and roll, country & western and rhythm and blues.

Juan asked to watch an episode of Weeds after that and I had to oblige. Then I kicked him out and went to bed. Bill came home as I slept and said I purred when he got in bed, which is a lot better than the jackhammer snoring that Bill does. Woke up reluctantly to the sounds of the Association, singing Never My Love. It seemed to go on forever as I lay there, half awake listening to the production which was quite good, but enough was enough and I eventually found the snooze button.

It felt like a Monday though it was Wednesday. The placement of New Years Day screwed up my sense of the days of the week even more. It’s been like this since last week. It’s not bad but it is confusing. I think a lot of people either took off this week or had it off, as it was a fast ride into the city, and I was taking my time. I usually leave the apartment at 7:00 but left around 7:15, still getting to the office somehow on time, before everyone else. I was hoping to leave early since half the office was expected to be out, but just about everyone was in. I didn’t mind as I set things up both physically and mentally to insure a pleasant year for everyone.

What happened or didn’t happen last year was done. It’s in the past, nothing to do but focus on the year ahead. I hope I do well and I hope you do well. Have a good new year! I think I missed Song while he was around. Sorry Song!