Monthly Archives: September 2025

Only Slightly Less

Only slightly less

Friday, September 19th, in the office. Playing the Smiths Stop Me if You Think You’ve Heard This One Before which always reminds me of the late Michael D’Isa. Pier Platters 2 on 1st Street, The Smith’s album came out, and Michael could not resist singing along to Morrissey.

Oh, this week was the first 5-day work week that I’ve worked since August. Last Friday was my birthday, and it was not as good as I had hoped it would be. That’s mainly because we invited Mike to join us, and Mike was a bitter pill to be around.

I will see him tomorrow, and part of it is filled with anxiety because he’s a Gemini, and like Bill says, you never know which twin you’re going to get. Sometimes it’s a sweetheart, sometimes it’s a spoiled little brat. And man, can he talk your ear off. Both Bill and Mike go for that astrology stuff.

The country is a mess, L’Orange Merde acting like a tin pot dictator, and somebody should have punched him in the face numerous times, as well as a baseball bat massage to his skull. I shouldn’t have to say it, but I have to. This is all hyperbole.

I am vacillating between going to meet up with Von at the cigar lounge after work or just going home. I did my laundry last night, which is what I usually do on Fridays when I get home from work, but I did it last night and advance of going to the cigar lounge. It would be nice to see Von, he’s a good man, and it’s always a good reason to smoke a cigar as if I needed one. So at 9:13 a.m. I am going to the cigar lounge this evening. At 9:15, it might be a different story, but so far so good.

Now I am listening to Buzzcocks. Perhaps I am in a Manchester, UK state of mind. I finally returned the Talking Heads book to the bibliothèque this morning. One less item to carry to the cigar shop.

Still vacillating as to tonight’s event. It’s a message to Von, looking for clarification on his attendance haven’t heard anything, so hence the vacillation. I would be content with just going home also, even though Bill won’t be there till he’s working late tonight, which means he’s starting late and we’ll finish late, and the operative word there is late.

Once again I sit outside in the shade smoking a small cigar and also contemplating on how I would get up to the cigar lounge if I go part of me is considering walking out there which we definitely kill some time but two Fridays ago or three Fridays ago and I took the train to the world trade center actually the ferry to the world trade center and walked up to Chelsea and the eventually 39th Street each step was heavy like lead. All for gathering my steps, I suppose.

I’ve spent some time today working on tests for online courses for the company that has placed me at the fruit stand, and I’m actually doing well on them.
There are many things that I could say, but I can’t think of any of them right now. I had a salad from Sweetgreen, and it was okay. My attempt yet eating healthy for the week. I’ve composed my shopping list for tomorrow. Which I will do before noon, I hope.

What time Mike is planning on coming over, he says 9:00-ish, which means 11ish, which means I have no idea, I don’t think he does either. I told him last week I had canceled the Lyft account, which upset him so how he is getting to Hoboken, I have no idea. I don’t think it’s my concern either, but then again, it will affect me one way or another.

Von has clarified that he will be there, so I am committed since he makes it worthwhile, and he has those kissable lips. Not that I’ve kissed them, but they are lovely.

So I am hoofing it up to the cigar lounge. I’m going to be crazy early once I get there. I could sit down and chill and have a cigar, and it’s not going to be an all-night thing anyway, obviously our or two see pVon and probably bounce.

I started on 14th Street, walked to Union Square to Park Avenue South, to 34th Street, over to Lexington, over to 3rd, things like that

So many places that I used to frequent, but it turns out it was 40 years ago or so. Here’s Mike calling me on the phone. Mike went to the Newport Mall and bought some clothes at JCPenney, and now he’s lost, so I was calling me for directions around Jersey City.

So, back to me which means Mike should interrupt a few minutes I’ve passed where the algerians worked and they really revamp the building and 6 years because it looks incredible and I walked up Park avenue South and then onto 34th Street but I also walked past two Park avenue where I worked the late ’80s and made some friends that I’m still friends with nowadays

I remember the theater where I saw both Star 80 and Radio Days, but not at the same time, no double feature, also where a magazine store used to be, but there are no more magazine stores, and here’s my calling again

Still lost but not as lost as he used to be. And there are quite a number of good-looking guys out on the street that night. Summer is winding down.

The cigar lounge visit was nice. I was crazy early and sat smoking a Padrón 7000. A few TVs were on, showing sports, and I was not interested in that at all. I read a music trade magazine, which was boring because I don’t know anything about the current hitmakers.

Shane, with his leather vest and white beard, arrived first. He’s running the Friday night social. There was a hint of recognition from Shane since we had met a few times over the past weeks, months. Brent showed up next, and I moved from one side of the room to the other where they were sitting.

Reintroductions were in order, stories were told, mainly by me, about the music business then in the 1990s to today at the fruit stand.

Von Harris arrived, and he livened things up for us. We enjoyed each other’s company. They were all drinking, and I had water. It was too short a time to spend with Von since I got there early and was soon to trod back down to the PATH.

My sleep routine was disrupted by this socializing, and though I walked about 14 miles and was dead tired, I couldn’t fall asleep fast enough. Took a couple of hours, actually. My toes had been bothering me on occasion when in bed, and I mentioned this to Jimmy Chile, who said I was lacking in magnesium. So I bought some magnesium.

The plan for Mike and me to meet up fell by the wayside, perhaps accompanied by sighs of relief on both sides of the text screen. I suggested a reschedule, and Mike agreed, saying next week. From what Mike has told me, he is finally meeting the love of his life next weekend, and I reminded him of that.

Today is September 20, 25 years to the day when Bill and I first met at a Men in Suits and Ties Yahoo group party on Ann St. Bill is out on the road and I am chillin at home. All is well.

Life without you
Is easy to do
Feeling green
And no longer blue

This that and a third

This that and the third

I sit at my desk after eating two slices of pizza which were average at best. I am listening to the Gun Club specifically the three songs that I have by the Gun Club. I have never seen Jeffrey Lee Pierce and Gun Club played Maxwell’s back in the day.

A week or so ago an old friend of my brother Brian and mine who I’ve written about before asked if I was with him when the Gun Club played the club called Folk City. I told him I had not and he basically accused me of being forgetful or lying. I don’t recall which he suggested or accused me of but neither was applicable.

I think I’ve written about Mike and I taking photographs at Cole Street on Saturday and sent him a text saying that we should meet at Cole Street at 2:00 p.m. He thought he was coming over on Friday night and then ride through my crib to get there but that was not going to happen. I don’t want him sleeping over so soon after saying goodbye like that, and there’s no point in it anyway he can sit and look at his phone in his crib.

He doesn’t bring anything to the table anyway. When there was a physicality happening there was always that chance and now that doesn’t happen so there’s no chance. I begged off saying I was going to meet a mutual friend at a cigar shop in midtown which I had done a few months ago and plus Bill would be driving so nobody will be around to let him in and show him the couch

I’m pretty sure he’s disappointed and I’m pretty sure I’m okay with it since I’ve been disappointed numerous times with him and his lack of communication with regards to showing up like things were planned in the past. Is it revenge? perhaps. But it’s looking after number one
meaning me.

We have not discussed whether or not this Saturday afternoon photo shoot will still go on in any event I will be fine if it does happen or if it does not.

I am disappointed that my usual bike ride to Liberty State Park will not be going on on Sunday due to the fact that there’s an upper class horse event going on which is a bit of a drag. Most of my usual spots and routes have been altered or blocked off so as much as I find it boring I will be heading towards the North Bergen I believe on Sunday.

Oh these first world problems

Bill is driving some senior citizens from Long Island up to Sleepy Hollow for some reason or other and Bill is supposed to be the tour guide and also the driver. What does Bill know about Sleepy Hollow.? I suppose we’ll find out if it’s more than the headless horseman and I suppose he’ll find out and I know they’ll find out.

1234 am I right? That’s all I got for now. When I’m outside smoking my cigar, I’ll have more to add.

Mike is enamored with his new Paramore. Promises are made to send him a TV. Mike was going to buy himself a TV, and I said, instead of buying herself a TV since you’re getting one for free perhaps you should buy a laptop like I had told him a few weeks ago that I’ve seen them on Amazon refurbished laptops for less than $100 which would do him better in his life and his career with a laptop.

We shall see. Next week is when they’re supposed to finally meet, and I almost mentioned that I hoped his parole officer doesn’t call, but I didn’t say anything, and I hope it doesn’t happen, but with the parole officer’s record…